Gabriela Moskonas Nieves LCSW, MSW, CCTP

License # SW 17120 Florida

License # 0904016007 Virginia

I’m Gabriela, a licensed trauma-informed psychotherapist and certified clinical trauma professional (CCTP). Trauma-informed therapists, such as myself, work with individuals to heal past hurts sometimes as far back as their childhoods. A trauma-informed therapist can show you how the effects of your childhood trauma still show up in the toxic relationships you choose to hang onto as an adult. A common denominator that makes people vulnerable to abusive people in relationships is previous trauma. My unique triage system can help you move from pain to a greater understanding of yourself and finally to the ability to remove yourself FROM the situations and people causing you pain.

If you know you’re ready for change but are not quite sure how to make it happen, and you’re ready to choose yourself, confront your past, and stop wasting time on people and relationships that make you feel less than….

Contact me at 786-843-9527 for your free 15-minute consultation. I offer in-person services for those near Doral, Florida, and online therapy for all residents of Florida and Virginia. Learn more about my specialties: anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, and navigating hostile work environments all through a childhood trauma lens.

What is trauma-informed therapy and why is it important that all psychotherapists, including yours, be trauma-informed:

Trauma-informed therapy is a way of helping clients who have had bad things happen to them. It helps them feel safe and in control. The therapist will listen to the client and help them make choices about their treatment. It is important because it helps the client feel better and more empowered. For example, it is important to treat the affected client as a whole person and consider their history when providing care. It is also important for the psychotherapist to acknowledge individual differences that may exist among clients. For instance, when dealing with an individual affected by substance abuse, trauma-informed care should recognize that people may use substances such as alcohol or drugs as a way of coping with trauma. Without considering this perspective, a therapist will not be able to provide effective assistance. Similarly, when dealing with clients who have been a victim of an aggravated assault or rape, some clients may not show emotions as a way of coping with the trauma involved. Therefore, it is important for the psychotherapist to consider what the individual might have gone through. So, a trauma-informed therapist would be sure to take a complete history of the client in this way, creating a framework with which to begin the therapy tailored for the client. Trauma-informed care aims to recognize the impact of trauma and identify potential paths for recovery. It also involves recognizing the symptoms and signs of trauma in the client, the client’s family of origin, and other people involved in the client’s life. Symptoms of trauma can manifest both physically and emotionally. Some common physical signs of trauma include fatigue, poor concentration, and anxiety with or without panic attacks. Another symptom could be mood dysregulation. Sometimes clients may find it difficult to regulate their moods, for example, they may feel intensely irritable and have frequent temper outbursts that are out of proportion to a situation. Since trauma-informed therapy is a type of therapy that helps people overcome the effects of traumatic experiences, it can especially be helpful for clients who may have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Trauma-informed therapists are specially trained not to inadvertently trigger and re-traumatize the client during treatment.

Here are some other benefits of trauma therapy:

  • Trauma therapy can help you learn how to handle distorted or negative thoughts and feelings.

  • Trauma therapy can help you reframe the traumatic experience and make some sense of it.

  • Trauma therapy can help you improve close relationships and connections with people.

  • Trauma therapy can help reduce irritability, anger, and frustration, and increase peace of mind.

  • Trauma therapy can help eliminate or reduce triggers and symptoms of PTSD.

If you have experienced trauma, it is important to seek help from a qualified licensed therapist who is trained in trauma-informed care. It’s also important to be able to differentiate between the different types of traumas. Trauma can be a single event or chronic. Chronic trauma is typically thought of as exposure to war, military combat, violent police work, or exposure to a natural disaster. But what many people do not know is that growing up in a dysfunctional family can be considered chronic trauma as well. A dysfunctional family is a family that has trouble getting along. They might not talk to each other very well or they might not know how to be kind to each other. Sometimes parents might have problems with things like drinking too much or feeling depressed. When families have these kinds of problems a lot, it can make everyone feel upset, stressed out, sad, and as if they do not belong to a normal family. Now, if as an adult you remember events from your childhood growing up in your family that still make you feel scared or upset, consider discussing these feelings with a licensed psychotherapist. Whether it was physical abuse, psychological abuse, or neglect that you suffered, you may feel drawn to people who remind you of family members who hurt you before. Trauma survivors often do not realize their families were dysfunctional due to their history of normalizing unhealthy behaviors. Chronic trauma can significantly affect every aspect of your life. Without proper treatment, symptoms can last for years and can lead to your using maladaptive coping mechanisms like using alcohol, drugs, or self-cutting to deal with your uncomfortable emotions. Don’t put it off any longer, get help today from a licensed psychotherapist and make sure they are trauma-informed. Shake off the lingering feelings of hopelessness and shame from your childhood. You can reclaim yourself with good psychotherapy.

Get started with counseling, today.